Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Can a mother resign?

Today I wanted to resign as a mother.  I felt like that last week too.   There are times when everything comes crashing all at once.   As a mother we are required to carry a delicate balance between what we perceive to be no big deal and the reality of what a child is feeling in their own little world among their peers.  

When your child is feeling the pressures of life at their level you need to pay attention and address the issues at hand.  I on the other hand started comparing child number one with child number two and said to myself; well child number one never went through that.   I had to remind myself that what I am hearing is real in this child’s world.  Although, I know that this situation is temporary and it will pass.  As a parent I have to walk the line between their world of maturing, groaning and growing and pay attention to what is happening in the moment.  Parenting can seem overwhelming at times, so I encourage you to do what I do when that happens.  I regroup and call on my troops.   

These troopers are my comrades of close friends, my fellow soldiers and supporters, other moms who have gone through the growing pains of raising children and who have experienced their share of resigning moments.  I am ever grateful that I can pick up the phone and get help.  It is important as mothers that we build relationships with other moms whom can rally with us when trouble comes and when the sense of despair wants to overtake you and your child.  These are the times that a mother needs wise counsel. It is then that you rally your friends to pray with you and to encourage you to get through that crisis moment.  I know that no matter how great or small the crisis, my troopers are there and for that I am grateful.   

I believe it takes a troop and sometimes a village to help raise children who can conquer their world.  Every parent who has raised a teenager knows that these are the most critical years of their life.  The teenage years are years of transition and growth from childhood through young adulthood.  

So I urge you mom, before you resign, call your troops and rally together to get the wisdom needed to get through the day, the week, the moment.   Encourage yourself; remember this season will pass before you know it.  Try to enjoy the journey no matter how difficult some days may seem.  Pray and ask for help.  We need each other so that together we can build strong families.  


  1. Excellent blog!

  2. Many blessings, Irma 2 U & Urs. I enjoy Ur gazette as well as this blog and can relate immensely to this particular article since I am a single, but very & I mean it sincerely very happily single mama of 4 beautiful blessings. Each 1 of my children are so different from each other and although my 2 youngest are 15 & 16 life just seems so crucial to them when they go thru something that we wouldn't think it was. I thank God that in those "crucial" moments when it all happens simultaneously mind U, I've spent those precious morning hours with the Lord seeking His guidance in ALL especially in child rearing issues. So in essence, I'm single in the physical sense to the world, but so very happily married in the spiritual because it is He that helps me everyday with my children and in those OMGosh moments when life just seems to happen to them.
    Thanks, for Ur blog and informative subjects!

  3. Thank you Sandra. We certainly can't do it without His help.